I am writing with regard to the article “Blacklist for abusive husbands” (Mar. 10). I believe this problem occurs because people rush into marrying without really thinking it through. Sometimes you need to sit and think before making decisions like marrying someone. Also the woman's family should not be so naive about the man they are allowing their daughter to marry. On the other hand, there are a lot of women who psychologically abuse their husbands. It is wrong for either gender to do this and anyone, of either gender, who does so should be punished. Saad, Online response II. I agree with the writer that whatever the reason, women should report to the authorities any wrong done to them so that such things will not continue. The problem occurs when a woman loves the wrong person and she continually forgives him and hopes that he will change for the better. Also sometimes women sacrifice and accept abuse for the sake of their children. Dr. Ali Al-Ghamdi, Online response III. To be fair you should also propose creating a database to blacklist abusive women. Mohammed, Online response